Negative reactions often come from unmet needs
[#bailey-not-personal] enumerates some examples on what some negative reactions might indicate. But the main take-away is to always question if that negative reaction comes from an unmet need.
Some examples:
- Anxiety might come from lack of visibility
- Blaming might come from anger
- So forth and so on.
So whenever facing negative reactions, stop a minute to wonder about what has caused them and try to uncover the covert reason.
[#bailey-not-personal]: Bailey, Dave. “The Art of Not Taking Things Personally.” Medium, September 1, 2021. https://medium.dave-bailey.com/the-art-of-not-taking-things-personally-b7a8395ce172.